This Halloween bear in mind that it is not just an evening for children. Many adults also enjoy the excitement of dressing up, assuming a different character and enjoying large quantities of sweet treats. The cool part is that when it comes to physical intimacy, you determine what constitutes a “trick” or a “treat.”
The idea is to give yourself permission to feel pleasure and what better time to do that then on Halloween where we are conditioned to demand others to give us candy. You can communicate to your partner what tickles your fancy and then the fun begins.
Many couples find it difficult to say what they want. Why not channel your inner desires to your partner this Halloween through communicating, “Trick or Treat.” Let your partner respond either naughty or nice. This is entirely up to you and costumes are optional. Happy Halloween!
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